Be the girl he would love to have around[ In 3 Steps]

“What’s your kind of girl Josh?”

She asked.

Without much hesitation, I rattled them out cos I’ve had those traits in my mind for over a year now:

Pretty, slim, tall, fair and values knowledge.”

For me, those first four describe what I consider attractive about a lady any day anytime, anywhere.

For the most part, It feels good to be around someone that wow your friends:

Wow๐Ÿ˜, where on earth did you find her?!”

It makes me feel really good and more like a winner.

It’s natural with guys_ we want to feel the high of a winner.

Whatever makes us feel that high is what is worth having around.

You don’t want to be a girl that he leaves home when he wants to see his friends, do you?

If you desire to be the one he longs to hang out with and be around him, then in three simple steps you can make that happen.

Three Simple Ways To Have Him Always Wanting You

You can’t change some things but there are a few you can that will improve those you can’t.

Those are the basic three you are about to be given. And here they are:

1๏ธโƒฃ Enhance Your Mental Value||it makes you valuable to him

That’s what a gentleman sees as the true value.

It’s surprising, isn’t it?

It should. But it’s so true. Guys don’t wanna be around gurls that aren’t mentally attractive.

He can flirt around them for a while but when the beauty fades with time he will leave.

You’ve got a mind that determines the mos of how important you are, why not invest in it?

  • Develop your problem-solving skills
  • Read books that add value or two to your life;
  • Develop your interests and hobby;
  • Be creative_ do stuff that requires creativity

All these build your usefulness.

In case you didn’t know, to a gentleman, usefulness is what he sees as an attraction.

Personally, I’m always attracted to a lady that reads. I admire ladies that value knowledge.

So, enhance your worth by investing in your mind.


He is attracted to what’s useful to him.

2๏ธโƒฃ Work on Your Appearance|| nothing delights me more ๐Ÿ˜

Look smart. Be in shape. Shed some weight if it’s in excess.

You can’t afford to let your appearance work against you.

  • Be neat;
  • Wear clean good looking clothes;
  • Have a 3times daily shower ๐Ÿšฟ

Looking good they say is a serious business.

And watch your weight. You must take this seriously.

You should be light enough for him to bear up in his arms.

  • Go to the gym
  • Attend yoga classes
  • Cut down on excess carbohydrates
  • Drink a lot of water
  • Take a lot of vegetables

You don’t have to be a model before you start working on your weight. It’s quite healthy and lovely to behold.

Ask him which female celebrities he adores how they look. It would give you an idea of how he wishes you look.

He loves you the way you are, but if you can look smarter, he will love you more dearie ๐Ÿ˜

3๏ธโƒฃ Care to Know his Hobby and Participate Sometimes || he will always miss you when next he’s doing it without you

The majority of the guys love to watch a football match( excluding me).

Why not go out with him to watch a match or two.

See, it’s those little moments that keep playing in his mind at his leisure.

So take good note of them.

Ask him when next he’s going to the game house and offer to go with him.

  • Play PS ๐ŸŽฎ with him of he has one. Tell him to teach you if you don’t yet learn how to play it
  • Go to the movie theater together;
  • Have some interest in what he loves.
  • Offer to go see his friends with him sometimes.

Such a girl is a darling. He will miss every moment you are not there with him.

Button line:

It doesn’t take much to delight a guy:

  • Start working on your mind
  • Look good to the sight. Dress well and be neat.
  • Care for what he cares about.
  • Participate in some of his hobbies.

And very soon, be cant but always long to see you around.

Much love from here dearie๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’ž


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