Be the kind of guy she loves to hang out with [in 4 steps]

“What’s your kind of guy like?”

I asked.

“Tall, smart, have a good dress sense, financially stable, and visionary.”

She replied.

Who would want to hang out with such a guy, anyway?

He’s such a guy that ladies feel good and secure having around.

If she can feel good and secure having you around, then she’s wished all day to hang out with you, buddy.

In her private moments, she’s gonna wish she were with you.

Trust me๐Ÿ’ฏ

That’s the kind of guy that rocks her world.

Here’s the truth: you can be that kind of guy.

Really. And It’s not too difficult if you want to.

You only have to get good at a few simple things. And bere they are:

  • You’ve got to develop your interests.
  • Pay attention to your physique
  • Yes, you’ve got to show you’re responsible
  • And you’ve got to learn how to say something nice to her.

1๏ธโƒฃ Develop Your Interests|this is for herself.

Ladies love to be around guys who are creative and productive.

She wanna be around someone who isn’t just like everyone else.

That’s what being mentally smart means to her.

So, pick up skills if you don’t have one yet. And it can be any creative skill:

  • Writing
  • Play instrument
  • Vlogging
  • Painting
  • Singing, …

She wanna be around someone who’s adding to the world in a certain way, no matter how small. She wants to be around someone who’s relevant to others.

And one way to be that is to develop a skill that demands creativity and adds value to people.

2๏ธโƒฃ Pay Attention to How You Look | this is for her friends _ especially girlfriends

She wants her girlfriends to see you and say, ” Wow, he’s so cute.”

To her, how you look in the eyes of her friends, especially girlfriends, is important.

So you’ve got to look good:

  • Shave your hair and keep it neat;
  • Wear good clothes and have a good dress sense;
  • Have good air around you.
  • Make an effort to look physically fit. Register in a gym house or do a walkout at least 3 times a week.

If her friends talk well of your physique then she’s gonna love it, being around you.

How you look to her is important but how you look in her friend’s eye is even more important to her.

3๏ธโƒฃ Show You’re Responsible | this is for her dad _ her hero.

‘cos daddy is gonna ask her. “Is he going to be able to be able to take good care of you?”

What they actually mean to say is:

“Does he show that he’s responsible, enough to take care of you as I have done over the years?”

Daddy has a special love for daughters and wouldn’t want any random guy to ruin what he’s cultivated in her over the years.

Daddy needs a guy who can take over from where he stopped.

So be that kind of guy:

  • Develop your mind: read books, attend seminars, invest in becoming a better man than you currently are.
  • Have a paying job: financial security is important. You have to show your capacity to take care of her when she leaves the vineyard of her dad.

If her dad sees you’re responsible, she’s gonna feels so good about it.

4๏ธโƒฃ Learn to Tell Her Something Nice | She can live a whole day on a good compliment

Just as butterfly seeks the juice in a flower ๐ŸŒธ so is a lady’s ear. She loves to hear something nice.

I remember the day sent my girl crush a certain message during the period I was still asking her out :

“The way looked today, dearie, set my soul on a gentle fire๐Ÿ”ฅ”

I tell you, a few days after, she gave me a yes!

Words work magic in a lady’s ear. It’s probably the shortest route to her heart. ๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’•


Here’s what you need to keep in mind: a lady’s wold is built around her.

If those that make up her world approves of you, she too can’t help it.

Bottom line: a lady’s love feeds on social acceptance and approval. The more those in her world approves of you, the more she loves you and loves to hang out with you.

Hope it helps?

As always, you can add to the list, share your experience, thoughts, and opinions.

Have fun buddy๐Ÿ’•

#Smiles ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜


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